Thrixian

Why is it so easy for men to emotionally move on and disconnect from a relationship? I'll let you in on a secret; men often don't move on easily from relationships, at all. In fact, if a man is in love with a woman who no longer wants to be with him, he can be heartbroken for years. You just won't be able to tell. I’d like to tell you a story. Picture a long term couple who have just broken up. The woman, who has undoubtedly put all her energy into making her relationship work, is devastated. She tells her friends. She tells her family. She might spend night after night crying, externalising her grief, and generally having a difficult time. She's hurting, no doubt about it. But as time passes, the pain starts to ease. She is rediscovering her own inner strength, and with the help and support of her friends and family, she slowly realises that she doesn't need this man that she once loved. As time goes on, she manages to build a fulfilling life for herself once mor...

You've been FRIEND ZONED! Stop being a "loser" and tell her this story: A guy and a girl were having a conversation- Guy: I love you! Girl: I love you too but only as a friend, I've never thought of you in terms of a relationship. You are my best friend. Guy: Thanks for the clarification, I think I should be leaving now as I can`t change my feelings for you. Girl: What's wrong with you? Don't think over it too much. Nothing has changed. Guy: Yeah, maybe! You know why my friend resigned from his job despite getting a good promotion. Girl: That's strange..But why did he quit? Guy: Actually, he didn't like the terms of the promotion. Girl: What terms? Guy: His boss offered him a great position, more responsibilities but the same salary without any increment. Girl: Oh! He would have been stupid to have worked harder without any incentive. He did the right thing. Guy: Exactly! Hope you get the point Goodbye and have a great life! Stop being a ...

Happiness - The most overrated thing in life! Yes, it does make us happy. But imagine how boring would it be if every day, every moment was a happy one? What would be the point of learning? We would be aimless. We would be clueless about what to do in our life. Life would stagnate. Living life is more important than achieving happiness. And it is different from surviving or existing, as many would already know. Yet, happiness is all that we chase. Although it does serve as a goal in life, but to the point that it gets overrated and we forget to live in the moment, and most importantly, to embrace every experience in life like a step closer to the attainment of wisdom.

Never create unnecessary drama, and don’t surround yourself with those who do. Choose to spend time with people who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Don’t walk away from negative people, RUN! Life is too short to spend time with folks who suck the happiness out of you.

When everyone else turns away their face, a friend provides you his shoulder. Many people start neglecting their friends when they are in a relationship. They go on listening to their partner and start distancing themselves from their friends. The friends shed a silent tear and start staying away from their path. But, when the relationship begins to wane, you don't have anyone else but your friends. That friend will still listen to you and will happily provide you with his/her shoulder to cry upon. That friend will never argue on why you didn't call him/her or why you don't give them time. Friends are those amazing people who would always be there. When you have butterflies in your stomach after talking to your crush or when you need a shoulder to cry when your partner hurt you.. They would never let you do stupid things alone. I am so lucky to have friends who know the lyrics of the song in my heart and sing it back to me when I forget it. Love your friends because the...

Being a girl is never easy! Its told, best is not to try understand a lady, coz u'll either fall in love with her or u're gonna go mad. But for all the guys who want to be answered, let me try answer a few of those 'whys' If you ask us, 'Why we shop so much?' Here it is, We shop when we are happy coz it makes us feel like we're the ultimate glam dolls, We shop when we are sad, coz it makes us feel better (can it be anymore obvious), We shop when we are bored, coz thats the ultimate timepass! Guys who keep cribbing about it, dont see the clear picture. We consider ourselves the best, and we want nothing but the best for us. We go drooling over the variety of things available in the stores!Its simple and easy for guys, you have some 10 colours with roughly 4 different designs, and you're done shopping.While we going around matching that dress in black with the perfect pair of heels to earrings. You ask us 'Why do girls like to keep a guy hanging...

She's the girl who prefers one rose instead of a dozen. She's the girl who would rather stay with me on a friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. She's the girl who wouldn’t make me wait on her hand and foot, but would do anything to make me happy. She's the girl who would enjoy having a movie night rather than going to some fancy restaurant. She's the girl who would rather stay up all night sharing secrets than going out and having fun. She's the girl who won’t make me hold her bags, but would rather hold my hand instead. She's the girl who will love me more than anyone can possibly dream of. She's the girl who would give the world to see me smile...

Did you know that i wake up every day with you on my mind ? Did you know i go through the day with you on my mind ? Did you know when i go to bed you're on my mind ? Did you know when i sleep I dream of you as you can tell you been on my mind? since i met you, never have i stopped thinking about you..!! Those phone conversations that last for hours are the reason I sleep @ work. The all day texts we do are why my battery is always dying. The smile that I wear on my face is because you give me something worth being happy about. The uneasy feeling in my tummy is because you constantly give me butterflies. Oh, and the random moments where I just stare into space and day dream is because I'm remembering how lucky I am to have someone like you..!! PS - Sometimes I just need to leave a sweet msg in her Inbox when she's sleeping just to remind her that I'm the Person On Whom She Can Rely On...

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because the...

I wanna make you smile, Whenever you're sad. Carry you around when your arthritis is bad. All I wanna do, Is grow old with you. I'll get you medicine, When your tummy aches. Build you a fire if the furnace breaks. Oh it could be so nice, Growin' old with you. I'll miss you, kiss you, Give you my coat when you are cold. Need you, feed you. Even let you hold the remote control. So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink. Put you to bed when you've had too much to drink. Oh I could be the man, Who grows old with you. I wanna grow old with you.

Heart melting... A girl who was fervent in serving the Lord. She was a real born again, she don't lie, cheat, fornicate, or into boy friend and girl friend. The only problem that she had was.... Admission. She has wrote JAMB many times and failed. And was hoping on God to grant her admission into high institution, and that also made her to become more serious with God. A year came, she wrote JAMB aswell, and was waiting for result to come out. So when the result came out. Behold she made it and was given an admission into the university. But she had another problem. Her problem now is how to get the money to pay for her entrance to the university. She went and met one of her uncles. The uncle promised to give her the money but in one condition, he said that he will sleep with the girl first, before Giving her the money. The girl being a born again and a God fearing lady, refused the offer. She went back home and was disappointed. She had only 2weeks to pay, or else the...

It’s the worst feeling in the world to love and hate someone all at the same time. And it’s hard to watch things change when all you want is for them to stay the same. It’s funny but stupid how you want everything and nothing at the same time. It’s crazy when you want to let go, but you keep holding on. And when you want to move on, but you’re stuck right where you started. When feelings come and go and you can’t decide what you want. When you have so many things to say but you don’t know where to start. When you want them in your life so bad, but all you can do is push them farther and farther away. It’s so hard to think back to how things used to be and look at it now and realize that things are different and they may never be the same. You tell yourself it’s not worth it, but if it really didn’t matter, you wouldn’t spend so much time thinking about it. You Can't Deny It...

I am not the first person you loved. You are not the first person I looked at with a mouthful of forevers. We have both known loss like the sharp edges of a knife. We have both lived with lips more scar tissue than skin. Our love came unannounced in the middle of the night. Our love came when we had given up on asking love to come. I think that has to be part of its miracle. This is how we heal. I will kiss you like forgiveness. You will hold me like I'm hope. Our arms will bandage and we will press promises between us like flowers in a book. I will write sonnets to the salt of sweat on your skin. I will write novels to the scar of your nose. I will write a dictionary of all the words I have used trying to describe the way it feels to have finally, finally found you. And I will not be afraid of your scars. I know sometimes it's still hard to let me see you in all your cracked perfection, but please know: whether it's the days you burn more brilliant than the sun ...

He gazed at her, watching her very serious face as she scrutinised his bruised elbow. He studied her expression: it looked pained. Perhaps more pain than he actually felt at that moment. Lost in love and wonder, he smiled stupidly as she fussed and fretted because the doctor was delaying meeting them. “What are you smiling for?” she asked him. She was annoyed. She was beautiful. He exhaled deeply, moved closer to her, held her hand in his and then spoke: “You see, I have heard people say so many things about how to be happy. Some find happiness in wealth, some in their friends, some others in their jobs... But have you ever realized how happy a newborn baby is as he rests in his mother’s arms? He knows nothing about this world. He knows not what wealth is, he knows not what the future holds. All that he knows is he is being loved and taken care of. His world is at peace. And all the time that I’m with you, I feel like that newborn baby.”

As he looked over at her,it suddenly struck him how beautiful she was. Her hair was blowing carelessly in the wind, rich and dark in the sunlight. He had the oddest impulse to touch it, to reach out, to see if it was as soft as looked. Her lips were curved into a slight smile that seemed to radiate warmth. He wondered who or what she was thinking of, and felt his heartbeat skip when he imagined her smiling for him. She was happy and free and every part of her being seemed to be a mystery, just waiting to be discovered. He found it crazy that he'd never noticed before her eyes were just the right shade of green, or how her laughter sounded like summertime. They had been friends for so long, and yet he'd never really looked at her. He found himself starring, desperate to learn more. "What are you looking at? She Asked, finally pulling him out of his daze. He was at a lost for words. Why did she suddenly make him nervous? They'd been friends for years. Friends we...

ALL SHE WANTS IS TO BE BEAUTIFUL. She's gorgeous. She's beautiful. She stares in the mirror and hates what she sees. She spends hours in the morning fixing her hair, putting on make-up, and still hating her reflection. She exercises five hours a day, starves herself skinny, makes herself throw up at night. She goes in depression. Starts cutting herself. She spends thousands to go under the knife to change the beauty she already had. She's beautiful. Anyone can see it; except her. Why can't she just learn to love herself instead of putting herself through all this agony? She's never good enough for herself. Doesn't see what the point of her living is. Life is hopeless for her. She gets an overdose and feels the rush of death.

Hey Sweetheart, Starting from the very next weekend, after the day we get engaged, until the day we get married – We are going to a date every weekend in the evening. We will watch a movie and have some good food in a different restaurant every time. Long drives, Long walks. Candle light dinners. Picnics. That’s a promise Our wedding day would be the last day of your life you’d cry while leaving your house. After that you’d cry either because of happiness or because of shampoo gone in your eye. xP I will make sure you stay happy and content for the rest of your life. At every step, you will always find me right behind you to catch you if you fall or push you if you stop or guide you if you’re lost. I will be reliable, responsible and supportive at all times. I will respect you, love you and adore you all my life. I will kiss you everyday at least these many times - when I wake up, just before leaving for the office, after coming back from the office an...

What Hurts The Most. . . Do you know that feeling when you know that soon someone is gonna leave you? You become all bitter instead of cherishing your limited time together, Why? maybe it's just a way for you to tell that person to not go, to not leave, to just stay here with you. And you think by acting that way he/she is gonna change her/his mind. But that person still leaves, which makes you feel alone, betrayed and not important to that person anymore. But maybe we were just so selfish, maybe we were just too insensitive. Haven't we though about their feelings too? That's the reason why they did say"goodbye"before they left, they tried their best to make you understand but maybe we were just too stupid to listen. They didn't have a choice, because if they did they would choose to STAY. Leaving is as hard as to be left too.

When you're sad and depressed, I will be here to put a smile on your face... When you're angry and frustrated, I will be here to calm you down... When you're hurt and in tears, I will be here to wipe them away and mend the pain... When you're lonely and have no one, I will be here to comfort you... When you're feeling unloved and unwanted, I will be here to tell you how very important you are... When you're having a bad day and need to lash out, I will be here to let you let off steam, you can yell at me... When there is something on your mind that you need to say, I will be here to listen and understand... When your lost in confusion, I will be here to help you figure things out... When you feel like your going crazy, I will be here to bring you back to sanity... When you are so overwhelmed and need to get away, I will be here with open arms so we can runaway together... When your scared and frightened, I will be here to protect you and mak...

SHE'S BROKEN AGAIN After a long time, she missed him Tears came out from the eyes which had dried Faint memories of those moments touched her mind..... She wanted him back She wanted to feel him again Everything came alive in just the blink of an eye The day it all started to the day it all ended..... The moments when she thought he belonged to her The time when she thought she belonged to him Those lonely walks hand in hand Those long conversations & short silly fights His loving touch in the wintry nights Those warm hugs which she'll always miss Those cosy cuddles in his manly chest Their first kiss in the month of December Their favourite love songs in his sweet voice and karaoke sang Those hopes and swearing words Those promises to last forever Her expectations that he'll never change His materialistic dreams, His selfish plans Superimposed on her innocent trust Her false belief on his love Her blind faith on those words Her pain, Her sorr...