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Follow your dreams… Follow your heart… Follow who you are… Sometimes it would be so much easier to hide behind your friends and do just what you need to get by, but that’s not how you were made… You were made to stand out in the crowd and not just blend in… You were made to be great not just ordinary… You were made to live your wildest dreams…

About me - LEO ♌

LEO TRAITS Strengths: Creative, passionate, generous, warm-hearted, cheerful, humorous Weaknesses: Arrogant, stubborn, self-centered, lazy, inflexible Leo likes: Theater, taking holidays, being admired, expensive things, bright colors, fun with friends Leo dislikes: Being ignored, facing difficult reality, not being treated like a king or queen People born under the sign of Leo are natural born leaders. They are dramatic, creative, self-confident, dominant and extremely difficult to resist, able to achieve anything they want to in any area of life they commit to. There is a specific strength to a Leo and their "king of the jungle" status. Leo often has many friends for they are generous and loyal. Self-confident and attractive, this is a Sun sign capable of uniting different groups of people and leading them as one towards a shared cause, and their healthy sense of humor makes collaboration with other people even easier. Leo belongs to the element of Fire , just like Ar

My letter to Her, BUT I never sent it

Its not over yet, i guess it's just the starting. It was not about You, It was not about Me, I wanted it to be about Us, But it ended up being just with Broken Me. I was losing it all. And the greatest thing i lost you somewhere within me. A part of me was always yours but a bit of yours never became mine. I dreamt of making it to the end but only with you. I dreamt a roller coaster ride but only with you. And now since, you are not there all my dreams are just shattered. I know nothing can fix the broken things between us. You wanted to leave, and you left your story ended, But that is from where my story started. I was never such before. And all that i am now, i don't blame you. i blame myself, as you came with a tag Handel with care, and somehow somewhere i failed. The day i lost you was the first failure of my life and from then i am failing at each and everything. I have no clue when i'll be able to find the older ME, but the thing i know is i'll never be able

Open letter to MEN

"If Today A Girl Loses Her Virginity With A Guy She Loves Truly But The Guy Turns Out To Be A Cheat Then She Is Tagged As A “Slut”/ “Characterless Girl”. I Ask What Is The Mistake Of The Girl? She Loved A Guy? She Slept With Someone She Thought She Would Marry? She Has Now Lost Her Purity Which Would Satisfy Her To-Be Husband’s Male Ego And Make Him Believe That She Is Fit To Be His Wife! I Wonder How Can A Biological Wall In The Girl’s Body By Breaking Decide The Level Of Her Morals? Girls Also Belong To The Globalized World, Interacts With The Opposite S3x, Loves, Has Break Ups, Overcomes Them And Smiles Again And No One Has A Right To Tag Them Any Thing For That Reason..... But If A Girl Looses Her Virginity Doesn't Mean She Wont Be A Good Or A Perfect Wife In Future... So If U Go Looking For A Girl For Marriage, Search For A True Heart And Not Something Like “Pure Ghee”, Because She's Gonna Be Ur Life Partner And Not Ur Meal To Satisfy Ur Hu

Stay OPTIMISTIC

You can't control what happens in life sometimes. Everyone has fears & insecurities that drives emotions & actions. It's okay if you made wrong choices/mistakes! We are all human, more forgiving, & accepting by nature than you think. NO ONE is perfect! Trust me, we all have skeletons in our closest. Those who pretend not to, probably have more than you. You aren't worth less for past mistakes or failures. You may see, hear, or feel it that way, but not true. Get over that. Then realize that YOU have the power build YOURSELF up more, in YOUR OWN eyes, & those of others. It just takes willingness to admit & then positive pro-active actions. That's it! It's harder when you're strong or stubborn, but easier each time you try. Positive actions towards others yield positive feedback sooner or later. It feels good, feeds your mind & inspires you do another! So, self create the cycle of positive thinking, self appreciation/love, & hop

Stay POSITIVE

Staying positive, optimistic, & learning how to see positive possibilities in the negatives, is NOT an easy feat. The number one secret is "consistently & constantly" reassuring YOURSELF in order to increase strength, courage, & confidence to just tackle the fear & go for something. You have to talk yourself into believing, rather than depend on others around you to create the thoughts or feelings for you. Focus on reassuring yourself with as many positive thoughts & affirmations everyday! Build on positive thoughts all day. Convince yourself. Its a challenge, but also the first step in how to gain confidence, overcome doubt/obstacles/fears that gives you strength to be positive & go for things. Remember: it all starts with YOU first. I talk to myself positively all day, even "more" so when unsure or insecure. Must be pro-active to squash those throughts!

Her letter to me BUT she never sent it

Some relationships are nothing but mistakes After the end of a relationship, people say end it up on a good note and only keep the fond, cherishable memories with you. They say you need to let go and move on, They say you need to stop paying attention, even to your emotions? Really? You must be kidding me right? In most of the circumstances, specially after you've had a long serious relationship, can you really end it up on a good note? How can you even stay friends after that? Coz every time you talk to that person, he'll always have the same spot in your heart. You will never learn to let go. How can you suddenly be cool with him flirting around with other girls or paying more attention to them, while you sit in a corner and watch him? To let go? Definitely you must, when that guy doesn't deserve to be there. You've put yourself through hell coz of him and face it, he didn't give a damn. You cried every night coz of him, Every song reminded you of hi

Attention to all... Parents ESPECIALLY

― Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. ― Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/ she is 2years old. Lean to excuse yourself. ― If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well. ― Never allow any adult refer to your new born as 'my wife' or 'my husband' ― Never tempt your husband with your younger sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the devil's fault) ― Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you take care of your husband by yourself lest you lead him into temptation. ― Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they played together because young people now sexually abuse themselves. ― Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your chil

10 reasons no MAN wants to marry YOU

You are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost all your friends are married; including that ugly, short and fat Jane! Yet you think you are a good wife material, but you are still single and getting really worried. Well, MAYBE guys are not looking your way because you are guilty of a number of these offenses: 1. YOU ARE TOO HAUGHTY. Typically, you will quickly size up a guy and bring him down with intimidating looks and sarcastic responses. Well, I suggest you marry yourself. 2. YOU ARE LOOKING FOR MR. PERFECT. You want a rich, well-built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God-fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman from a good background who has a good job, drive a good car and loves you unconditionally. I’m afraid that perfect guy you read about in a romantic novel doesn't exist. Wake up gurl. You’ll never find a perfect guy – anywhere. Just like you, everyone else is imperfect. Accept that fact or marry the guy in your novel. 3. YOU SMELL DESPERATE. Men ha

What about FIRST LOVE?

First love... It smells like a bunch of red roses, with dark velvety petals, and pearls of dew glittering on them, perfectly shaped, and reflecting the seven colours of the rainbow from within their nothingness. Like the smell of earth after that shower of rain you watched from your window, and smiled inwardly to yourself at how much you seemed to enjoy the solitude on a dark lonely night. Like a chocolate cake, freshly baked, and served straight out of the oven. Soft, so soft - that it melts inside your mouth and fills you up with a chocolaty burst, as you bite in. Like the shampoo-ey smell of freshly washed hair on a sunny winter day, and the soft wet caress it leaves on your skin, as you wave your hair about, making you reminisce of better times. Of happier times. Like the smell of his breath, mixed with his cologne - so musky, so masculine, that all you want to do is to hug him tight, and be lost in that heaven forever. First love smells of memories. It smells of happiness. Of

Everyone got a HEART

There is nobody who doesn’t have true love in his or her heart. We all want to love and be loved but it HURTS a lot when you love someone so much, you care about him or her, you sacrifice any little thing you get and give it to that person, You believe in everything they tell you, you bear that person’s situation, you change your life in many ways because of that person you take to be your everything, you accept to lose some vital people in your life because of that person, you ignore other people who are interested in you because of him or her, you TRUST that person so much with all your heart, You keep yourself for only that one person yet he/she is loving someone else behind your back. As time goes on that person starts to ignore you. Starts doing strange things, gives you no attention and the relationship starts to be shaky. You try to fight for that person’s love yet seriously they are letting you go. You panic, you plead, you start begging for forgiveness yet that person in actua