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Lessons learned?

Do Not Judge People By Their Past Mistakes "Ah, yes. The past can hurt, but you can either run from it or learn from it." — Rafiki (The Lion King) There are a lot of things that we learn when we grow up. It starts out with learning how to walk and talk. Then we move onto bigger things. We learn how to add and subtract. We learn how to read and write. Pretty soon that adding and subtracting turns into multiplying and dividing. Next thing you know after that we are sitting in calculus class trying to figure out very complex equations. My point is the human brain is always growing and learning. As we grow up, our interests change. We grow as humans because we are learning and we learn in many different ways. Sometimes we learn in school and sometimes we learn by the mistakes that we make in life. Mistakes are a part of living, but they are also a beautiful part of life. If you don’t make mistakes, you will never learn. Think back on a time where you may have said something ...

Love

Love is a Decision Love is not a feeling, love is a decision you make and continue to make in order to create an experience that is described as love. Love is an action that if you don’t use you will lose. Love is like any communication, if you never send it out, you won’t get a return. Love is something do, not something you feel because something happens to you. Most of my life I was under the delusion that love was a feeling, something that was going to happen to me. Love is not something that happens to you but something that you make happen to you and happen to others. Love is something that grows from your actions and decisions and if you don’t have love and/or not experiencing love, then there is something you don’t know about love! I spent most of my adult life waiting for love to happen to me and after one failed marriage and endless searching for “the right person” I finally realized the truth about love, how to have it, how to create it a...

Reality

Do not flirt when you are in a relationship. Just don’t. I mean if you’re in a relationship, it’s not cute or funny in any way for you to go off and flirt with someone else. You’re with someone who is possibly hurting or jealous, because you go off and do such things. Sometimes, this person you’re with will say it’s okay, but it’s because they put up with it, only because they adore you to pieces, they love/ like you a lot. they don't want to lose you. #TruthZone