Thrixian

The past had been choking me and sometimes i got so mixed up in it that i didn't realise my opportunities... I found myself when i realise that the first point of survival is valuing oneself... Now, i can see how bright the future is that i put on shades... Love yourself so you won't see yourself as 'worthless.' find yourself before someone helps you with that. Make your own way and path... Remember, an end of a road is just a place to turn and keep driving never a stoping point. #WORD

They left Me with unexplained "good-bye" ,didn't they? Yea, they did... They might have said those words which engulfed My strength. They must have broken those promises which they were supposed to keep, indeed, forever. I bequested a lot of tears because of them. Love wasn't the endowment they gave but, pain was the present I got. Heart break makes the world fall apart for a moments but, may be it's one of those things which may or may not be compared to death. Inevitable, dark, and painful but something which still gives my soul a new life. Only a ruptured heart can understand the pain it has got. But, no matter what, picking up the million smashed pieces of My heart and moving on is the best option. Ever wondered why so many stars light up the dark sky? You say no? Those stars in the sky narrate My story, they help Me see myself amongst them, they try to inspire me. People around are like stars. So many stars are there, some in group some lonely. So...

I'm usually not the kind of person that would write a love letter, but I thought i'd do this for you because you are the the most wonderful thing in my life right now. I know we're far apart, but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much. I was just talking to a friend about you and explaining how you are on my mind 24/7. I can't eat, sleep, walk, drive, or even work without thinking about you. You are in my thoughts all the time. I'd tell you you're in my heart, but I don't feel like that would be right, because my heart is not mine anymore -- it belongs to you. You are sweet, loving, caring, beautiful, and you make me feel like one of the luckiest guys in the world. I need you to know I am with you through everything, the bad and the good. I've given you my heart and I hope that you won't break it. Keep it and give it some loving from time to time. Remember when I promised you that I'd never let you down,...

You can't control what happens in life sometimes. Everyone has fears & insecurities that drives emotions & actions. It's okay if you made wrong choices/mistakes! We are all human, more forgiving, & accepting by nature than you think. NO ONE is perfect! Trust me, we all have skeletons in our closest. Those who pretend not to, probably have more than you. You aren't worth less for past mistakes or failures. You may see, hear, or feel it that way, but not true. Get over that. Then realize that YOU have the power build YOURSELF up more, in YOUR OWN eyes, & those of others. It just takes willingness to admit & then positive pro-active actions. That's it! It's harder when you're strong or stubborn, but easier each time you try. Positive actions towards others yield positive feedback sooner or later. It feels good, feeds your mind & inspires you do another! So, self create the cycle of positive thinking, self appreciation/love, & hop...

An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house-building business to live a more leisurely life with his wife and enjoy his extended family. He would miss the paycheck each week, but he wanted to retire. They could get by. The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go & asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but over time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career. When the carpenter finished his work, his employer came to inspect the house. Then he handed the front-door key to the carpenter and said, “This is your house… my gift to you.” The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. So it is with us. We build our lives, a day at a time...

Some people allow circumstances to define them. Some allow circumstances to defeat them. But, not you, never. You, define, the circumstances. You, are never the result of circumstances. Instead, you, create them. You triumph through them. You rise above. When you take 100% responsibility for everything that happens or comes your way, then you are the cause, the creator and not the effect, nor the creation of circumstance. You recognize it is your thinking that makes something so. What is IS by your declaration. Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate. Never get caught up in telling stories of woe. Redefine yourself as someone magnificent. BE powerful and positive. Know that you’re in charge and any mess you create you resolve. The mess is only for your good. From chaos stars are born. Once you know you are in charge, and you are, you don’t have to suffer. You realize it is all for your good, your evolution and transformation. Believing makes it so. You k...

Take It or Leave It #Ladies ONE DAY, you'll also be a mother. That undoubted feeling must come. That natural nurture must occur. Today, if you ask every lady "who do you love MOST, your #Father or #Mother??? They will say 'FATHER' without hessistance. WHY??? When the best you can do for yourself is watch/observe and be close to your MOTHER, 'cos one day, you'll also be in her shoes, and you'll realise, 'I should've learned!' Aside being a Nun, there'll always be that moment that you'll feel that "motherly" urge! Even if your Mother is BAD - that's more reason to learn, so you'd be a GOOD Mother to your own Children! I've seen lots of ladies get into their matrimonial homes, and still rush over to their MOTHER whenever something that needs 'motherly' knowledge, cos they possibly don't know a thing, cos they never paid attention!!! Being a mother, is the HARDEST job ever. Being a mother, is a gif...

In this place while searching for some perfect people I actually found myself stupid but wise enough to learn that, there is no such thing called 'perfection', especially if that's the only thing you're tryin' to look for in people. Today, I don't know a Perfect Person but flawed people worth Loving. I haven't met a person yet who has got a record of not making a single mistake but forgiving them made them so much dearer. I hardly know any person not lying for any cause but understanding the reasons behind made them so innocent. I still have some people in my life who did no good but they haven't done anything bad either to be judged wrong. It's all about how we perceive.! It's just that we fail to look at the things as they are and allow our consciousness to corrupt. Life is beautiful with so wonderful people around. Lets stop looking for that perfect person, n try to be one.!

If Today A Girl Loses Her #Virginity With A Guy She Loves Truly But The Guy Turns Out To Be A Cheat Then She Is Tagged As A “Slut”/“Characterless Girl”. I Ask What Is The Mistake Of The Girl??? That She Loved A Guy??? That She Slept With Someone She Thought She Would Marry??? That She Has Now Lost Her Purity Which Would Satisfy Her To-Be Husband’s Male Ego And Make Him Believe That She Is Fit To Be His Wife??? I Wonder How Can A Biological Wall In The Girl’s Body By 'Breaking' Decide The Level Of Her Morals??? Girls Also Belong To The Globalized World, Interacts With The #Opposite_S3x, #Loves, Has #Break_Ups, #Overcomes Them And #Smiles Again And No One Has A Right To Tag Them Any Thing For That Reason... But If A Girl Looses Her Virginity Doesn't Mean She Wont Be A Good Or A Perfect Wife In Future... So #Gentlemen, If U Go Looking For A Girl For Marriage, Search For A True Heart And Not Something Like “Pure Ghee”, Because She's G...

You need to stop waiting until you're really close to losing your girl to start acting like you care & want to be with her. You can't just wait until last minute to show her she matters to you, you're supposed to show her that every day you're with her. You can't just wait until she threatens to leave you to start giving her reasons to stay, you're supposed to give her those reasons even when she doesn't ask for them. Eventually, she'll run out of chances to give you because you're not using them right so what's the point? Know what you have that's right in front of you & cherish it before somebody takes it away from you. #Just_Treat_HER_Special

A lot of men act like they are doing a woman a favor by asking for her hand in marriage but let’s think about this: She changes her name, changes her home, leaves her family, moves in with you, builds a home with you, gets pregnant for you, bear your children for you, pregnancy destroys her body, she gets fat, almost give up in the labour room due to the unexplained pains of childbirth, even the kids she delivers bear your name. Till the day she dies, everything she does benefits you. So who is really doing who a favor? #Dear_Men appreciate your wife today because it is not easy to be a Woman. Being a woman is Priceless!!!! Too bad so many women of today don’t even know their value. I Value My Woman...

Sometimes life could be ironic when it comes to intimate relationships. A guy falls in love with a lady who has everything he wants in a wife but he is not ready for marriage, whereas the lady is far ahead of him and cannot wait but gets married to someone else probably, someone she does not love the way she loves him! A lady is ready for marriage but is approached by wrong guys who do not have the qualities she desires in a man but they are ready for marriage whereas the right guy seems not to beavailable. This becomes an issue of theright person at the wrong time or the wrong person at the right time. What a twist? Nevertheless, God’s grace ina man or woman’s life positions the individual to meet the right person at the right time. Even if you have missed someone you love, another opportunity willbe available for you. When God is involved in one's life, He orchestrates events and circumstances to give you the best. My friends don’t think that...