Thrixian

Life is tough sometimes. Just remember you're NOT alone! Everyone is working so hard to...survive or achieve. In fact, you don't realize how many people "right in front of you" are struggling as hard as you are...if not more. It's SUCH a hard concept to grasp when you personally struggle. Every tiny thing seems worse than it really is. Then instead of doing, you become paralyzed with fear. Truth is almost everyone is dealing with fear of ego, judgment, or failure. Or has at some point. Everyone just hides it. So have faith! You are capable! Just do what you need to do. Period! Don't worry about what others think. They're focused on their own issues. I am often amused by people who assume I have a perfect life. It happens often. Why? They have have NO idea how much I suffer or struggle! When I tell them my reality, they are often left stunned. It was false perception!Point is, I'm not judging. You know why? I'm trying to survive too. I'

Anxiety is self-created. It occurs when we over-focus on a negative situation & build up negative thoughts. It is a physiological sensation manifested from future "perceived" fears. That's right. It has NOT happened yet! So stop! Pull yourself back to reality and right NOW. Stop wasting time and assuming fears will come true. It is not a certain. Can you predict the future? No! Yet, YOU CAN steer yourself through planning, preparation, and action. The moment you shift to "doing" the above and focus on that, you have engaged your OWN mind. You have taken emotional control of it. So come up with plans and solutions. Start taking action. You will quickly replace anxiety with motivation and inspiration to do more. Because....you are in charge. Just keep doing and stay moving.

You fight tirelessly to keep your love in check but your jealousy won't let you stay a week without arguing with your dude you meet with your girl friends and all they do is brag about how their taken by their lovers to fancy dates and your sitting there wondering why your dude doesn't treat you that way. your poor dude works overtime and your busy accusing him of not having time for you but he's busy working for the future coz swag won't pay bills, ambition and determination will. he won't give you all the money and offer the world to you but he will treat you with respect and love you like a real man! your leave your loving guy who gives you the most priceless thing called #love and you jump to this rich guy who takes you to fancy places and gives you #money. you feel lonelier than ever because the only thing this guy can do for you is to please you with money and not appreciate and love you. your even more jealous coz your girl friends are now eyeing your d

Stand by your man. Your man is not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He’s not going to quote poetry, his not thinking about you every moment, but he’ll give you a part of him that he knows you could break. His heart, He may not have the words to make you feel okay every time but he has the arms to hug you…Ears to listen to you and a heart that aches to see you smile. So, don’t hurt him, don’t analyze him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Smile when he makes you happy, yell at him when he makes you mad, and miss him when he is not there. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you. Think about it!

When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--untilwe admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter...

We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”

A Lady is scared to get back into a relationship with someone, not because she's sick and tired of guys or think they're all the same, #but because she's afraid. She's afraid of putting herself in a vulnerable position again. She's afraid of opening up to someone new again. She's afraid of getting attached to someone again. She's afraid of being lied to and being betrayed again. She's afraid of finding out truths and secrets again. She's afraid of having high expectations just to be disappointed again. She's afraid of feeling jealousy towards someone again. She's afraid of her trust issues acting up again. She's afraid of her insecurities overwhelming her again. She's afraid of her mind assuming the worst again. She's afraid of her heart getting broken again. Worst of all, She's afraid of losing someone again because everyone she cares about, seems to eventually leave her life... 😢😢😢

The past had been choking me and sometimes i got so mixed up in it that i didn't realise my opportunities... I found myself when i realise that the first point of survival is valuing oneself... Now, i can see how bright the future is that i put on shades... Love yourself so you won't see yourself as 'worthless.' find yourself before someone helps you with that. Make your own way and path... Remember, an end of a road is just a place to turn and keep driving never a stoping point. #WORD

They left Me with unexplained "good-bye" ,didn't they? Yea, they did... They might have said those words which engulfed My strength. They must have broken those promises which they were supposed to keep, indeed, forever. I bequested a lot of tears because of them. Love wasn't the endowment they gave but, pain was the present I got. Heart break makes the world fall apart for a moments but, may be it's one of those things which may or may not be compared to death. Inevitable, dark, and painful but something which still gives my soul a new life. Only a ruptured heart can understand the pain it has got. But, no matter what, picking up the million smashed pieces of My heart and moving on is the best option. Ever wondered why so many stars light up the dark sky? You say no? Those stars in the sky narrate My story, they help Me see myself amongst them, they try to inspire me. People around are like stars. So many stars are there, some in group some lonely. So