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Do Not Judge People By Their Past Mistakes "Ah, yes. The past can hurt, but you can either run from it or learn from it." — Rafiki (The Lion King) There are a lot of things that we learn when we grow up. It starts out with learning how to walk and talk. Then we move onto bigger things. We learn how to add and subtract. We learn how to read and write. Pretty soon that adding and subtracting turns into multiplying and dividing. Next thing you know after that we are sitting in calculus class trying to figure out very complex equations. My point is the human brain is always growing and learning. As we grow up, our interests change. We grow as humans because we are learning and we learn in many different ways. Sometimes we learn in school and sometimes we learn by the mistakes that we make in life. Mistakes are a part of living, but they are also a beautiful part of life. If you don’t make mistakes, you will never learn. Think back on a time where you may have said something ...

There shall always be that voice that will tell you how you are wasting your time and ability, how you shall fail, how some tried and failed, why your prevailing slips are indications of your future doom, why you are unworthy to dare, why your background mismatches your vision and aspiration, why your personality misfits your mission and how arduous the errand is. You have a choice. You have your thought. You have what burns in you that tells you how you can make it. Though the world may be interested in your success, it is much interested in your slips and mediocrity as-well. Your vision must keep you in your mission. Dare in wisdom. Dare unrelentingly. Ponder! #ThrixianTruthZone

I’ve learned from life that sometimes, the darkest times can bring us to the brightest places. That our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary growth; and that the most heartbreaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most wonderful people. I’ve learned that what seems like a curse at the moment can actually be a blessing, and that what seems like the end of the road is actually just the discovery that we are meant to travel down a different path. I’ve learned that no matter how difficult things seem, there is always hope. And I’ve learned that no matter how powerless we feel or how horrible things seem, we can’t give up. We have to keep going. Even when it’s scary, even when all of our strength seems gone, we have to keep picking ourselves back up and moving forward, because whatever we’re battling in the moment, it will pass, and we will make it through. We’ve made it this far. We can make it through ...

Don’t Sacrifice Your Present on an Altar of Your Past. You dishonor your future when you build an altar for your past. An altar is a place of sacrifice and worship. In the Old Testament, people would bring offerings to sacrifice upon the altar for various reasons. In modern times, many churches have an altar at the front of the church, not for sacrifices, but for prayer. Altars can be a great thing for a Christian, except when it’s a mental altar dedicated to something in your past. I have built mental altars to the hurts, tragedies, and losses that I have suffered. I keep them going by constantly revisiting these hurts, tragedies, and losses. The sole purpose of an altar in the ancient world was to be a place of sacrifice. If the purpose of an altar is to sacrifice, what exactly am I sacrificing? Whenever I visit these mental altars I end up sacrificing a piece of myself. Unfortunately, the sacrifices never get me anywhere. They only keep me locked in my past. Wheneve...

Don’t tell me you love me, show me you love me. I don’t want to hear “I love you” every single time we get off the phone as if it’s some sort of routine. A broken record playing, just because it was said once and now we feel like it has to be on repeat. I want consistency. I want effort. I want you to show me why it’s me, and not anyone else. And I don’t want to have to force anyone to do it either. I don’t want to nag someone to treat me well or the way they know I deserve. I just want the little things that matter most, you know? Show up. Include me. Go out of your way. Be that best friend I call each and every time. So, don’t tell me you love me because you think you have to, show me you love me because you want to.” #ThrixianTruthZone

Love is a Decision Love is not a feeling, love is a decision you make and continue to make in order to create an experience that is described as love. Love is an action that if you don’t use you will lose. Love is like any communication, if you never send it out, you won’t get a return. Love is something do, not something you feel because something happens to you. Most of my life I was under the delusion that love was a feeling, something that was going to happen to me. Love is not something that happens to you but something that you make happen to you and happen to others. Love is something that grows from your actions and decisions and if you don’t have love and/or not experiencing love, then there is something you don’t know about love! I spent most of my adult life waiting for love to happen to me and after one failed marriage and endless searching for “the right person” I finally realized the truth about love, how to have it, how to create it a...

Once a father and son went to the kite flying festival. The young son became very happy seeing the sky filled with colorful kites. He too asked his father to get him a kite and a thread with a roller so he can fly a kite too. So, the father went to the shop at the park where the festival was being held. He purchased kites and a roll of thread for his son. His son started to fly a kite. Soon, his kite reached high up in the sky. After a while, the son said, “Father, It seems that the thread is holding up a kite from flying higher, If we break it, It will be free and will go flying even higher. Can we break it?” So, the father cut the thread from a roller. The kite started to go a little higher. That made a son very happy. But then, slowly, the kite started to come down. And, soon it fell down on the terrace of the unknown building. The young son was surprised to see this. He had cut the kite loose of its thread so it can fly higher, but instead, it fell down. He asked his f...

A woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door "Hurry!" she said, "stand in the corner." She quickly rubbed baby oil all over him and then she dusted him with talcum powder. "Don't move until I tell you to," she whispered. "Just pretend you're a statue." "What's this, honey?" the husband inquired as he entered the room. "Oh, it's just a statue," she replied nonchalantly. "The Smiths bought one for their bedroom. I liked it so much, I got one for us too." No more was said about the statue, not even later that night when they went to sleep. Around two in the morning the husband got out of bed, went to the kitchen and returned a while later with a sandwich and a glass of milk. "Here," he said to the 'statue', "eat something. I stood like an idiot at the Smiths' for three days and nobody offered me as much as a glass of water." #T...

Some people allow circumstances to define them. Some allow circumstances to defeat them. But, not you, never. You, define, the circumstances. You, are never the result of circumstances. Instead, you, create them. You triumph through them. You rise above. When you take 100% responsibility for everything that happens or comes your way, then you are the cause, the creator and not the effect, nor the creation of circumstance. You recognize it is your thinking that makes something so. What is IS by your declaration. Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate. Never get caught up in telling stories of woe. Redefine yourself as someone magnificent. BE powerful and positive. Know that you’re in charge and any mess you create you resolve. The mess is only for your good. From chaos stars are born. Once you know you are in charge, and you are, you don’t have to suffer. You realize it is all for your good, your evolution and transformation. Believing makes it so. You kn...

Building Your House An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor of his plans to leave the house-building business to live a more leisurely life with his wife and enjoy his extended family. He would miss the paycheck each week, but he wanted to retire. They could get by. The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go & asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes, but over time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career. When the carpenter finished his work, his employer came to inspect the house. Then he handed the front-door key to the carpenter and said, “This is your house… my gift to you.” The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all so differently. So it is with us. We build our l...

#To_My_Bby We're are together , we now are one. The day I became your Boyfriend , your problems became my problems. Your business became my business. I can't promise you a perfect , stress-free , relationship but what I can promise you is as long as you're TRYING , I'm staying. . I'm riding until the wheels fall off and when they do , I'll walk with you and that's my word I won't say I'll never hurt you chances are i will. I'll make mistakes. I'll break promises I'll fight with you. I'll make you scream I'll make you not want to be with me anymore. But even so i will always learn from my mistakes. I'll never give up on us. I'll always apologize. I'll always love you. I'm not perfect. I never will be. But i also don't want to be dishonest and promise you things i cant keep. I'd rather show my faults and try to make up for them I promise you, as long as you're trying, I'm staying #From_the_...

Do not flirt when you are in a relationship. Just don’t. I mean if you’re in a relationship, it’s not cute or funny in any way for you to go off and flirt with someone else. You’re with someone who is possibly hurting or jealous, because you go off and do such things. Sometimes, this person you’re with will say it’s okay, but it’s because they put up with it, only because they adore you to pieces, they love/ like you a lot. they don't want to lose you. #TruthZone

Do not flirt when you are in a relationship. Just don’t. I mean if you’re in a relationship, it’s not cute or funny in any way for you to go off and flirt with someone else. You’re with someone who is possibly hurting or jealous, because you go off and do such things. Sometimes, this person you’re with will say it’s okay, but it’s because they put up with it, only because they adore you to pieces, they love/ like you a lot. they don't want to lose you. #TruthZone

When life throws stones: build a castle 🏯 #thrixian

I learned that who doesn’t look for you, doesn’t miss you and who doesn’t miss you doesn’t care for you… that destiny determines who enters your life but you decide who stays… that the truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. There are three things in life that leave and never return: words, time and opportunities… therefore, value whoever values you and don’t treat as a priority whoever treats you as an option. #TruthZone

When everyone else turns away their face, a friend provides you his shoulder. Many people start neglecting their friends when they are in a relationship. They go on listening to their partner and start distancing themselves from their friends. The friends shed a silent tear and start staying away from their path. But, when the relationship begins to wane, you don't have anyone else but your friends. That friend will still listen to you and will happily provide you with his/her shoulder to cry upon. That friend will never argue on why you didn't call him/her or why you don't give them time. Friends are those amazing people who would always be there. When you have butterflies in your stomach after talking to your crush or when you need a shoulder to cry when your partner hurt you... They would never let you do stupid things alone. I am so lucky to have friends who know the lyrics of the song in my heart and sing it back to me when I forget it. Love your friends because they ...

No matter how sure you are of someone’s love, it is always nice to be reminded of it. Loving someone and having them love you back is the most precious phenomenon in the world, and it should be expressed as such. When you truly love someone, be loving in words and deeds every single day. If you appreciate someone today, tell them. If you adore someone today, show them. Hearts are often confused and broken by thoughtful words left unspoken, and loving deeds left undone. There might not be a tomorrow. Today is the day to express your love and admiration... #Truthzone